This is a subject that I am very passionate about. I think kids need pencils not iPads. Some people agree whole heartedly with me and some people would like to see me being burnt at the stake like the medieval witch that I supposedly am. Get with the times Hazel. It’s the 21st Century.
Lets start with the adults.
When was the last time you wrote a list? Put something on a physical calendar, not the one on your phone? Wrote an address on an envelope? Drew a picture with your child?
Chances are probably not for a while. Do you have a phone book? I don’t mean the digital mobile version but an actual handwritten phone book that sits by the house phone? I don’t. But I remember having one when I was a kid. I remember doodling in it while chatting to my BFF every night after school for hours and hours. In fact I still remember her home telephone number off by heart.
What I’m trying to say is, us adults remember a time when technology wasn’t in our daily lives. Heck, we even remember a time when computers weren’t found in every single home. Dial-up was exciting! Our kids don’t remember those days. All they know is that all big people have a phones, tablets or laptops firmly attached to our hands. What I find shocking is that I know of children at the age of 2 who have their OWN iPads.
Have you noticed that your handwriting has suffered because you no longer have to use it? Or maybe your spelling has flopped to an all time low. Why? Because spellcheck does it all for you. If you don’t know the meaning of a word then you simply Google it, don’t you dare ever use the dictionary.
When we were children we learnt to hold a pencil and write by watching and copying others who were already masters at the skill of written communication. I observed a child in nursery last week try to swipe-right a piece of A4 paper. I sh*t you not. I thought I was imagining it, but I wasn’t. Think about that for a second.
How are our children going to learn the art of writing, holding a pencil and how to glide the pencil over gorgeous smooth paper if parents encourage them to stare at a glowing screen inside?
Kids need pencils not iPads.
OK, there is the obvious- Kids need to learn how to write. But what if we face a future were no human never has to write ever again. OK, that’s a very very unlikely scenario but the way this world is going and the speed of technology it wouldn’t knock my socks off if it did happen.
But kids use pencils and paper for lots of other things other than just mark making. Imagination, language skills, fine motor skills, colour recognition, self esteem are all developed through pencil and paper. Many parents will admit to letting their child under the age of 2 play on an iPad or smart phone. I admit it, although it is an extremely rare occurrence, and given the choice, I know my children would prefer to sit and draw in their sketchbooks. Not many parents I’ve met can say that.
Too much screen time in childhood has been linked to obesity, depression and aggression. Dangers of too much scribble time? The risk of a nasty paper cut or spending too much money on stationary.
It’s not just drawing lines. Kids let their imaginations run free; horses can be pink, the sky can be green and a car can also transform into a mutant spider that eats giant carrots. These are some of the things my kids have drawn. On paper. My girls help each other during arts and crafts time, they praise each other for their efforts and they admire each others work. Its hard to share an iPad screen. Screen time should not become a pacifier, but a child’s boredom can quickly be resolved with some fun imaginative play. Tipping up a whole pencil case across the floor might make any busy parent’s skin crawl but it guarantees some peace and quiet, and you will probably receive some awesome portrait of you in return.
The education system are wanting far more from young kids. They are expecting the level of learning to be higher than it was in previous years, yet in reality children are not meeting these ‘goals’ and are actually falling behind compared to where children were 10 years ago.
When I was told this during a parents meeting at my daughters first school induction week I scoffed (loudly and embarrassingly at the back of the hall), I was thrown daggers from a few parents.
But, what could be the cause? The only real obvious reason that I can think of is screen time becoming extended for all children in the last few years. Written skills are dropping…because no one writes any more. Minds are becoming numb to the outside world, and parents are spending more time on their own smart devices than playing and teaching their kids. It’s hard as a working adult too switch our brains off. Our ears are fine tuned to the ‘Ping!’ of an email. But will our children’s memories of us always feature a smart phone, rather than fun? I don’t want my kids memories of me to be ones of my head dipped and an illuminous glow highlighting my face.
How to get your kids to spend less time on an iPad and more time drawing
If you think that your child might be spending too much time on an iPad, smart phone or even watching TV, then hopefully after reading the above you will have made a personal pledge to get them to spend less and less time on them (or better still, no time at all!). Maybe you’re concerned about addiction to screen time or you just wish that your child would spend more time trying to write their name.
So, if you would like your child to choose pencils over iPads why not take them to a stationary shop (remember those?!) and let them choose some fun new crayons, pens, sketch pads and their own pencil case. You could always treat yourself to some new stationary too, if you’re feeling inspired.
Talk about the huge choice of what there is to buy and what they would like to create with their new stationary. Let your imaginations run wild! Don’t just stick to pens and pencils, explore the world of sticky-notes (great for teaching kids to read- label items in your home!) funky pencil sharpeners and have fun creating patterns with rulers.
Go home and get creative! You could set up a lovely writing desk in the corner of a room for your child to sit at. I find the living room best for this because it can take the focus away from the TV (turn it off first) and you will always be close by to see their amazing pieces of work. In the summer time encourage kids to get creative outside. The fresh air will help their minds run wild too. This week, we have been drawing frog spawn in nanny’s garden.
National Stationary Week 2017
From April 24th- 30th it’s National Stationary Week. A perfect chance for you and your children to get some inspiration and get crafty with stationary. Each day if the week is a different theme, and I would love to see your daily creations. I shall be posting a different blog each day per theme and my Instagram will be full of stationary-tastic posts.
On the 26th-26th of April why not visit the London Stationary Show at London’s Business Centre. For more information about the show, what fab things there will be to see and do or even to exhibit at the show, please click here.
7 Days of stationary:
Monday 24th- Pen & Pencil Day
Tuesday 25th- Get Crafty
Wednesday 26th- World Stationary Day
Thursday 27th- Thank You Thursday
Friday 28th- Fountain Pen Friday
Saturday 29th- Signature Saturday
Sunday 30th- Write A Letter Day
Remember, whatever you share use the hashtags #writingmatters #natstatweek so we can see your fabulous National Stationary Week posts 🙂
*All of the stationary featured in this post, and in any upcoming posts for National Stationary Week have been gifted to me. This post is an entry into the Stationary Blogger of The Year awards*
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