How To Get A Shy Child Prepared For Nursery

If you’re about to send your child to nursery for the first time, you’ll know that this can be an emotional time for you and them. Whether you’re sad to see them growing up, worrying about missing them when they go, or just worrying about how they’ll cope without you. Send them off well prepared and they’ll learn, play and make friends much more easily.

Start Socialising

If your little one is an only child, they may find it difficult when suddenly faced with a lot of strange children at a new nursery. Before they go to nursery for the first time, help them get used to the idea of being around other children by going to a local toddler group, or setting up fun playdates with children of a similar age to yours. They can start getting the hang of socialising, sharing toys and playing nicely with others.


Set Them Simple Tasks

Many nurseries, like Nursery Wandworth, ask the children to help with simple tasks like putting away the toys or helping to give out plates at snack time. Test this out at home by setting similar basic tasks suitable for little ones. Get them to help you with tidying up their play space or putting toys back into the toy box.


Look For Settling In Sessions

If you can, send your kids to a nursery that offers settling in sessions that you can go to with your little one. This gives them the chance to see the new place and experience it, with you there for comfort. It also gives you the chance to see where your little one will be and what they will be doing.

This helps your child to feel relaxed at nursery, and helps you to stress out less about them when you send them in without you.


Stay Calm

Toddlers can react in quite extreme ways when they realise they’re being left at the nursery for the first time. Help them to stay relaxed by staying relaxed yourself. Young children can pick up on your feelings, and if you’re stressed or worried, it will teach them that nursery is a place to be worried about.

Try to disguise your worries from them, and instead talk about nursery in a positive, upbeat way. Instead, teach them to think of nursery as a place for a new adventure where they’ll meet new friends and have a good time playing.


Stay On Schedule

Early mornings getting ready for nursery can get away from you when you’re getting toddlers ready, but try and get into a simple routine. Children feel more relaxed with a routine they can predict, so get them into good habits for getting to nursery so they arrive on time, happy and ready to play, instead of upset after a difficult morning.

Make sure you’re always on time to collect them too. It’s essential for your kids to feel secure and they should feel confident that you’re coming back for them when you promised you would.


Hazel Newhouse

Hazel is a mum to 3 daughters and a son, she lives in Bedfordshire with her husband, kids and pets. Hazel has written for various publications, and regularly works alongside popular parenting and gardening brands.

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